UPDATE: Managed to get a second hand regulator from Mr Muir and a new one from Mr Feeney (that had been returned to him as faulty but which he suspected was perfectly ok).
Auto electrician checked car out today - and it was the ruddy alternator that was at fault!
The bushes on it had worn right down.
Anyway, the resourceful Mt Warburton of Mark's Auto Service in Macclesfield managed to obtain some very similar bushes from a little motor factors place, filed them slightly to make them fit, soldered them in - and hey presto, the alternator started charging again beautifully - reading of 14.378 volts on tickover.
My voltage regulator was obviously working fine - but I fitted the new one from Mr Feeney to be on the safe side (and he was right, there was nothing wrong with it), have kept the one from Andrew as a spare as I had paid him for it (though he asked for nothing) and am now putting my original voltage regulator (which I know is working) up for sale on ebay.
Car now running beautifully again and back on the road! Happy ending.