Funny you should mention the gauge of the wire, the rear springs seem really soft (then again, they are way too long) and the rear suspension can be compressed easily by pushing down on the rear of the car. Can't really tell either way with the front as they have never had the weight of the car on them and it's hard to tell by just pushing down on the springs.
As for getting the front and rear springs mixed up -- when I first got the springs the two shorter springs had F on them, and the two longer ones had R on them, so it would be pretty hard to mix them up
When I realised the fronts were wrong they were sent back along with the original fronts to get a proper reading. So they got replaced, and then I realised the rears weren't right either, so they were sent back along with one of the original rear springs...
So now it looks like a third suspension removal which is getting a bit ridiculous really.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not blaming Mike in any way. He's gone out of his way to try and get this sorted, he's lost money on this already and I appreciate him putting in the effort. But yeah, it is pretty annoying as this was supposed to be one of the easier parts of getting the car back on the road but instead has ended up delaying other things that need to be done by a couple of months.